Entries by kali

The Desperation to be ‘Fixed’!

Desperation was my driving force, my momentum for the first 2 ½ years on this journey with a fistula. Every possibility, every magic pill, potion and lotion I would dive at it, desperation fuelling my direction, my hope. I searched, tirelessly for natural cures, balms, miracle stories on the internet and the next wonder worker in New Zealand, heck in the world. Then slowly a change happened…

When your buttons are pushed…

When we react from a space of a pushed button, usually we simply fuel an equally out of control reaction from the other person and so we both get caught up in a whirpool of emotions, stories and events that are running us both and powering our respective buttons…

All these expectations

What does society expect of you? What do you expect from yourself? Are your expectations out of alignment with reality? Do you create expectations that are always higher and higher? Be gentle with yourself…

Am I doing enough?

Am I doing enough? I find myself questioning as I sit with my back against the wall in our bedroom gently tapping on my EFT points. This spiral of questioning hasn’t plagued me for a while…

Showing kindness to your body…

It’s so easy when our bodies hurt or play up to feel frustrated and annoyed with that part of our body, or to simply pop a pill that removes the niggle. Maybe we could take these niggles as an opportunity to actually listen to our body and offer it some love and kindness instead?